September 15, 2022
Is being tied up in a private session something you wish for? To let go and lose control or to learn about being in rope, to discover or push your limits and to get in touch with your body. For those who wish, we can take photos during the session so you can see yourself in rope and to keep the memory.
Ideally you will wear tight fitting stretchy clothing or underwear. It’s important that your clothes don’t bunch up too much because it can potentially create difficult to manage pressure points. Unless previously negotiated, genitals must remain covered at all times.
It can hurt but it doesn’t have to. There is almost certainly a degree of discomfort at some point during a rope scene, but based on your preferences this can be mitigated.
Typically the entire session lasts 2-3 hours.
The first portion is to get to know each other and negotiate the scene. We don’t determine exactly what will happen but rather delineate your limits and desires and I cater the session based on the info you provide, respecting my own limits as well.
Then we tie - this can last between 30min - 60+min depending on our combined energies and the natural progression of the scene. It doesn't always need to be long to be deeply impactful and satisfying.
The last part is aftercare, which looks differently for different people. It can be a cuddle and/or a debrief about the scene that we shared or something else, as we determine in the first part.
The debrief is an essential exchange after the scene. Depending on the intensity of the session an additional follow up in the days to come may be needed/desired.
Often people new to rope or BDSM don’t know what they like in a scene or what they need for aftercare, but they have a fairly good idea of what they want to experience. This is a good place to start. The rest we figure out together as much as possible and generally err on the side of caution and do our best to communicate clearly.
The base price is $250 for the session, it doesn’t matter if we do suspension, floorwork or in between, the time and energy as well and the knowledge and experience I bring is the same.
Certain requests that are outside of a typical scope of shibari may cost more.
Depending on where you live it could be possible, but safeguards will need to be put in place for our mutual protection.
Beyond the security aspect associated with this practice, many things need to discussed with the rigger before we can begin to tie. It is best if you contact us by phone or come visit us at Tension before booking.
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January 23, 2023
Fundamentals a book brimming with safe(r) practices "a path" or my path...
To start exploring the world of rope otherwise known as the art of Shibari or Kinbaku; this enigmatic art is perfect for thrill seekers, spicing up a relationship or those just curious to have a weekend out of the ordinary and potentially grow together emotionally.
January 05, 2023