To maintain a respectful, comfortable, and safe(r) environment for all participants, please adhere to the following updated policies and guidelines:

1. Awareness of Physical Space and Use of Tatami:

• When attendance is high, the tatami mats can get crowded quickly. If you’re not tying, please move to the table or couch space to leave room for those who are tying.
• Clear your ropes and toys from the area when you’re done to maintain a tidy and organized space.
• Do not drag the tatami; they can get damaged, and the new synthetic tatami can melt when dragged across the floor. Lift them with two people if you cannot do so alone.
• No open containers near the tatami to avoid accidents that could damage your ropes or others'.

2. Awareness of Sounds:

• Tying often involves a vulnerable state. Loud talking or laughing can disturb others, transforming a positive experience into a negative one.
• Keep conversations at a low volume, even if you are not directly in the tying space, to avoid disrupting others.

3. Awareness of Play & Impact:

• Tension aims to provide a space for calm, intimate moments in rope. Lively BDSM practices with loud noises can disturb this environment.
• If you wish to engage in more intense play, consider whether it might disturb others and ask if you are unsure. We encourage safe(r) practices suited to the environment.

4. Awareness of Limits:

• Understand the ties you are using and the risks involved. Ensure you and your partner are aware of each other’s limits to maintain physical safety.
• If unsure about a technique, ask someone more experienced for guidance.

5. Photography & Consent:

• Do NOT take photos without prior consent from everyone in the background.
• If you accidentally capture someone, delete the photo. Blurring is insufficient as people can be recognized by tattoos, distinctive clothing, or other features, and they have not consented.
• If you plan to take photos, consider occupying space in “the outside lanes” so that you can set up your shot against a wall.
• Some events with a photographer will have a disclaimer, and you may appear in the background of those event photos. Feel free to come with a disguise to such events (e.g., Soirée Shibari, Nuit Clandestine).

Additional Notes on Safety:

• Tying to posts or suspension points can be dangerous, especially if the bottom falls or faints. Ensure your techniques are safe even if your partner does not remain standing.
• If you are interrupted by staff during a tie, please be kind. We are as responsible for you and your bottom as you are.

Parties & Private Practices:

• For louder or more intense play, consider organizing private practices. Tension has many open time slots around scheduled events for private reservations. We also host play parties that cater to different tastes, so find something that fits your style.

By following these guidelines, we can ensure a respectful and safe(r) environment for all participants. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.